City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Alyce Youmans Kozma
Chapel Hill, North Carolina
Age 74.
Died 12/07/2024.
She grew up in a home on Crenshaw Street in Newberry, South Carolina, where her father ran the Newberry Steam Laundry and Dry Cleaning Company. Alyce attended St. Margaret’s School, an all-girls high school in Tappahannock, Virginia. Her time at St. Margaret’s remained one of her fondest memories, and she loved reconnecting with her classmates at reunions.
Alyce earned a degree in journalism from the University of South Carolina, which led her to a job at The State in Columbia, where she met her husband, Peter Michael (Mike) Kozma II, who preceded her in death. She and Mike were married for 52 years in a partnership marked by a deep commitment to one another and a decades-long mastery of the fine art of bickering. Alyce had a knack for getting her way, whether it was ensuring her Diet Cokes were prepared with just the right amount of ice or persuading Mike to turn down his music.
A lifelong beachgoer, Alyce treasured the traditions she cultivated over the years. Her trips to the Carolina coast revolved around fried seafood, ice cream, and long drives with Mike, reminiscing about past beach rentals and favorite restaurants. Her paradise was an affordable Myrtle Beach condo with an ocean-view balcony and a late check-out time.
Alyce had a soft spot for pint-sized, yappy dogs. She adored her pups, spoiling them with treats until they resembled little beach balls. She leaves behind cherished memories of Ocho, Smokey, Fasha, Leon, Katie, Prince, Chester, Remy, Sula, CJ, and a few others her family may have forgotten to mention. Her pets held a special place in her heart, often winning her affection in ways humans rarely could.
She is survived by her daughters, Cara Kozma Tsitouris (Alex Tsitouris) and Michelle Kozma (Robert Jones); her five grandsons, Akarion and Michael Kozma, and Jackson, Cameron, and Weston Tsitouris; and her sister, Barbara Youmans Beck.
To honor Alyce, the family invites you to do the things she loved most: treat your pets (even if they don’t need it), savor a fried seafood platter, or find an off-season deal on a condo with an ocean view.
A celebration of life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a nonprofit organization of your choice.
For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Apples to Apples
Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.
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We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.
Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.
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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.
Our Services
$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
$2875.66
We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
$1917.84
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
$2497.50
An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
$6081.48
We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
$3033.75
This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
$2640.59
As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.