City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Jeremiah Martinez

Durham, North Carolina

Age 44.
Died 07/22/2024.

Jeremiah Martinez
Jeremiah Blue Martinez completed his journey on Sunday July 21, 2024, surrounded by his children and his loved ones after a brief battle with brain cancer. Jeremiah was a friend to many, and known for his easy going nature, his boisterous personality and blue eyes. He was born in California, but lived his younger years in Nevada. Jeremiah moved to Virginia after joining the US Navy, where he served as an EM on Nuclear Submarines for 6 years. He eventually found his calling working in Automation for Amazon, where he was able to utilize critical thinking and problem solving to address needs and train others to do the same. In his free time, Jeremiah enjoyed fishing, comedy, spending time with his children and had a passion for food.
Jeremiah was a proud father to Kayleigh and Mason Martinez. His children brought him an unlimited amount of joy, and he continued to be in awe of what strong and resilient young adults they were becoming. He was grateful to be their father.

Jeremiah also was a loving brother to Kathleen DesJardin, and uncle to her two daughters Karisa and Kirsten. Recently Jeremiah had found his partner and the love of his life Elizabeth McMillan, and became a doting dog-dad to Poppy. Though their time was short, they both were aware that what they shared was a deep unconditional love.

Jeremiah was incredibly humbled and grateful to have received outstanding care from the Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke in Durham NC. He frequently said that he never knew that there were so many wonderful people in the world until he was in treatment at Duke.
In the coming months there will be a celebration of life gathering planned for Jeremiah. At this time In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to The Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center at Duke or to Transitions LifeCare Hospice in Raleigh NC.

For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.


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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.

Simply having to reach out to a funeral home can feel overwhelming. Our goal is to simplify the entire funeral home experience and make the process as easy as possible. We hope to eliminate any unnecessary surprises by publishing our total cost and the services we provide directly on our website. All of our obituaries are provided free of charge as a way to help families celebrate and commemorate the lives of their loved ones.

Our Promise

Apples to Apples

Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

Genuine Care

We're committed to providing families within our community unsurpassed service before, during and after the time of loss.


Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.


We promise to make this process affordable and as endurable as possible.

State Wide

Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

Our Services

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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