City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Paul Shick
Durham, North Carolina
Age 86.
Died 03/12/2025.
Paul was born on October 14, 1938, in Mayport, Pennsylvania, to the late Frank and Ruth Shick. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brothers, William (Bill) Shick, Robert (Bob) Shick, and Bernard Shick. Paul, known affectionately as “Bud” to family and friends, was a man of deep faith, unwavering kindness, and a warm sense of humor.
For the last 33 years, Paul and Renee made their home in Durham, North Carolina, where they were devoted members of Grove Park Chapel. Paul faithfully served as an elder and sang in the choir, sharing his love of music with his church community. He was also an active member of Gideons International for more than 20 years, dedicating his time to spreading faith and encouragement.
Above all, Paul was a devoted follower of Jesus and lived his faith daily. He loved sharing daily devotions with his family, guiding them in their walk with the Lord. His faith was the foundation of his life, and he was a true example of kindness, generosity, and love.
Music was an integral part of Paul’s life. From an early age, he was involved in choral groups, quartets, opera, and theater. Coming from a musically gifted family, he was not only a talented vocalist but also an accomplished trumpet player.
Paul was a devoted family man and is survived by his children, Kevin Shick (Jennifer) of Knoxville, Tennessee; Paula Zuber (Rob) of Boone, North Carolina; and David Shick (Lisa) of Tampa, Florida. He was a cherished grandfather to Alyssa King (Clayton), Brittany Charnley (Michael), Brooke Cespedes, Michael Zuber (Michaela), Erika Sparkman (Chase), and Kelly Zuber, and a beloved great-grandfather to Myla King, Makenna King, Braydon King, Vera Charnley, and Brylynn Sparkman. He also leaves behind many other loving family members and dear friends.
Paul was a fun-loving man who found great joy in spending time with family and friends, sharing meals, and playing games—especially cards. His warmth, humor, and kindness will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Gideons International in his memory at www.gideons.org/donate
The celebration of Paul’s life will be held at Grove Park Chapel in Durham on March 24 at 5 PM.
For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
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$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
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We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
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City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
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An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
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We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
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This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
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As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.