City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation
Obituary
Deanna Audrey Lord
Raleigh, North Carolina
Age 60.
Died 02/13/2025.
Along with her mom, Deanna relocated to Tampa, Florida and finished high school. She then attended (and graduated from) Hollins College in Roanoke, Virginia, where she met her future husband. Married in 1989, they resided in Raleigh, North Carolina. Later, in 2001, they bought a cottage on Bald Head Island, North Carolina, which became their haven.
Deanna began work as a teacher at St. Timothy’s Episcopal School. Deanna’s tenure at the School, covering more than two decades, was interrupted by the births of her two daughters. The School posted a tribute to her and her service here, https://www.facebook.com/StTimothysSchoolRaleigh/posts/pfbid02RXsAAijVU82zAoUEPyu4CAUtQH5MNXyQkSK46Kv5qwmrFcH2jYf2fji1c3Jkmamfl.
Also upon her arrival in Raleigh, Deanna began worshiping at St. Timothy’s Episcopal Church. She was an active member in the church and served on the Vestry. Deanna was a member of the Order of the Daughters of the King, too.
On February 13, 2025, Deanna passed away peacefully while attended by her family. Deanna had been battling pancreatic neuroendocrine cancer with a team of amazing providers at Duke University Hospital and Raleigh Family Practice.
As those who knew Deanna, none of these titles (daughter, sister, aunt, wife, mother, teacher, parishioner, and friend), either individually or collectively, give any depth to how special a person she was.
Deanna’s funeral service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 8th, at St. Timothy’s Episcopal Church in Raleigh. The service will be live-streamed and also recorded here, St. Timothy's Episcopal Church (Raleigh, NC) - YouTube. Immediately following the service, a celebration of her well-lived life be held in the Parish Hall. We welcome you to attend.
Deanna is survived by her husband, Michael C. Lord; her daughters, Meghan Davis Lord and Taylor Broderick Lord Reeves; her sister, Donna Thompson; her son-in law, Sam Reeves; her nieces, Amanda Oliver and Allie Thompson; her nephew, Billy Lord; her aunts, Sandra Kumst, Marguerite Bennett, and Melanie Broderick; her first cousins (Lisa, Bridget, Christina, Yanina, Patrick, Cathy, Anthony, and Kayleigh); her brothers-in-law, Scott Thompson and John F. Lord, III; and her parents-in-law, John Foley Lord, Jr. and Gladys Davis Lord.
In lieu of flowers, please donate in Deanna’s name to any of the following institutions which she felt strongly about:
St. Timothy’s Episcopal Church https://sttimothyschurch.org/giving
St. Timothy’s School https://sttimothys.org/ways-to-give/
Duke Health https://www.gifts.duke.edu/dmaa?technique_code=DHORGGB1Duke (select Duke Cancer Institute Fund)
For additional information or for service details, please reach out to the family directly.
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City of Oaks Cremation and Funeral Home is a full-service funeral home in Raleigh, serving all of North Carolina and beyond. We provide an alternative to costly funeral homes and every day we help families in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and all over North Carolina make simple, affordable funeral arrangements.
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Apples to Apples
Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.
The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.
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Our staff will provide clear communication to your family through each step as we move forward from the original phone call notifying us of a death to the time we deliver the urn back to your family. We will treat your family with the utmost respect, as we honor the wishes of your loved one.
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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.
Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.
Our Services
$1196.75
Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.
$2875.66
We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.
$1917.84
City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.
$2497.50
An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.
$6081.48
We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.
$3033.75
This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.
$2640.59
As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.