City of Oaks Funeral Home & Cremation

Obituary
Robert F. Wise

Cary, North Carolina

Age 64.
Died 02/07/2025.

Robert F. Wise
LCDR Robert (“Bob”) F. Wise USN passed away peacefully on February 7, 2025 in Cary, NC. He was 64 years old. Robert was born in Annapolis, MD and was the oldest son of Frederick and Constance Wise. He was salutatorian at Bishop Neumann High School in Williamsport, PA. He was in the 14th Company at the US Naval Academy, where he graduated in 1983 with a BS in Political Science. He joined the nuclear submarine force on the USS Plunger, an attack submarine based in San Diego, CA. While serving there, he met his wife, Rebecca Walker, and they were married in 1987. He served on the Plunger and then at FITCPAC as an anti-submarine warfare intelligence officer. After nine years of honorable service, he attended Kellogg Business School (Northwestern University) in Evanston, IL, where he graduated with a Masters in Manufacturing Management degree in 1992. Bob served in the Naval Reserves at Naval Station Great Lakes, IL for two years and remained in the reserves until 1999. He was awarded the Navy Commendation Medal with two Gold Stars and a Navy Achievement Medal, among others. Starting in 1992, Bob worked as a Process Engineer for Merck & Co. Pharmaceuticals in Wilson, NC, where he lived with Rebecca and son, Matthew. In 2021 he and Rebecca moved to Cary, NC. He believed in a life of service and volunteered four summers at the Christian Appalachian Project during his USNA years and served as an Assistant Scoutmaster for Matthew’s Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts troops.

Bob is survived by his wife, Rebecca, and son, Matthew (Pamela); brothers Steve and David; sisters Beth and Christi; and step-mother Sharon. He was predeceased by his mother and father. Bob was known for his positive energy, love of adventure, and laid-back personality. He loved to travel and had intense pride for his time in the Navy. At the Naval Academy, Bob’s company mates appreciated his help in academics and his fun-loving attitude. On his submarine he was nicknamed “Rocket Bob” for his quick thinking and decisiveness. He never met a stranger he didn’t like and was kind and generous to all he met. He will be remembered fondly by all who knew him.

If you would like to honor Bob’s commitment to service, please donate in his name to the Christian Appalachian Project at https://www.christianapp.org/ or the Boy Scouts Eastern Carolina Council at https://scoutingecc.org/.

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Just like all other licensed funeral homes in North Carolina, City of Oaks Cremation, LLC is regulated by the NC Board of Funeral Service.


The same laws that apply to the big corporate funeral homes also apply to the modest independently owned firms like ours. All crematories in North Carolina, regardless of who owns them, are inspected annually by the state and must adhere to the same rules and laws.

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Our Funeral Home is located in Wake County NC; however, we provide our services to families throughout the entire State.


Unlike other funeral homes, we don't charge an additional mileage fee. Regardless of what county you live in, we can help your family with making simple, affordable funeral arrangements. From Asheville to Wilmington, we're proud to help families statewide.

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Direct Cremation

$1196.75

Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. We include everything you need for a simple or direct cremation. Simple, affordable and reliable. We have not changed the cost of our direct cremation service since we opened City of Oaks in 2012.

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Cremation with Solidified Remains

$2875.66

We offer the option of choosing how you receive your loved ones remains. Selecting our Direct Cremation with Solidified Remains option is a beautiful way to transform cremated remains into 40-60 “stones” that you can hold.

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Cremation with Visitation

$1917.84

City of Oaks Funeral Home and Cremation provides an affordable cremation option with onsite visitation. Nobody likes surprise costs added in at the last minute. We guarantee you will not find any hidden charges here. Simple, affordable and reliable.

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Immediate Burial

$2497.50

An immediate burial has the same end result as a traditional burial; however, we have eliminated the extra (sometimes unnecessary) services prior to getting to the cemetery. Not everyone wants an open casket for viewing or a limousine for the family. Despite the term immediate, we can move as fast as you need or as slow as you like. This option simply allows you to save money by eliminating some of the fancy extras at the funeral home.

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Traditional Funeral

$6081.48

We offer the same traditional funeral services as the big corporately owned funeral homes in the area; however, we cost about half the amount. You might consider a traditional funeral service if your family is looking for an open casket visitation, a traditional church service or a funeral service in the funeral home's chapel. A traditional funeral service can be altered to fit the needs of your family.

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Green Burial

$3033.75

This establishment is one of a select number of funeral homes who meet the criteria for providing green funeral service by the Green Burial Council; a tax-exempt, nonprofit organization working to encourage environmentally sustainability in the field of funeral service. Our Green options allow for a funeral to take place without the use of toxic and non-biodegradable materials/chemicals.

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Aquamation

$2640.59

As an alternative to traditional cremation, City of Oaks Funeral Home also offers Aquamation. The Aquamation process, often referred to as alkaline hydrolysis, uses a solution of water and potassium hydroxide to facilitate natural decomposition.

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